Monday, December 30, 2013

the year nothing happened

Just like that, Christmas is over...and it is almost the new year!  If your holidays are anything like mine, they involved LOTS of family & food, and they FLEW by!  I'm always amazed at how quickly they pass.  Our Christmas includes two VERY important birthdays also, so it's double the celebration! You need a vacation from your holiday, in the best, sleepy want to snuggle on your couch all day kind of way!  Anyway....I'm looking forward to posting about some of my favorite gifts to give (and receive!)...but with 2014 only a few short hours away....it would be wrong to not reflect on 2013 in its fabulous entirety.

I made a facebook album not too long ago that I titled "the year nothing happened".  It was the perfect way to describe a period of time where too much has happened to describe in one sentence otherwise.  Ant and I have since lovingly referred to 2013 in that way...either that, or our quarter life crisis.  Either is fitting!  In our 25th year, we have accomplished a LOT. and I couldn't be more proud of the life we are building together.

I sat here for awhile trying to recap the major things that have happened....but really, the amount that has happened this year is a bit outrageous.  When I break it down to the most basic quarter life crisis moments, you get this:

Ant and I got engaged on May 15, 2013.
We bought our first home on September 11, 2013.
I made my first big career move on November 6, 2013.

This does not include the AMAZING travel I (/we!) did this year, or any of the many other million exciting things that have happened in the lives of those we love (graduations, weddings, babies, oh my!)  Ant got a promotion at work, I crossed international borders for work (oh Canada!)....etc. etc. etc.  you get the gist.  The short version, 2013 has been very good to us..

I put together this little video that goes backwards through the last year via my personal instagram account.  While it doesn't include half the things that have happened - it's a cool way to reflect on some of the highlights!



2014 has big shoes to fill, but I have a feeling it might even blow this year out of the water.  We already have a number of vacations planned - I made the nice list this year and Santa rewarded me with JT tickets for February (!!!!!) - oh yea, and I'm marrying the love of my life!  We are very, very Lucky.

I hope you have a wonderful New Year!!!  What are you most thankful for in 2013?  What are you most looking forward to in the new year?

I'll see ya in 2014 to discuss our New Year's resolutions! (or lack thereof....)

Monday, December 23, 2013

Merry Christmas!


Merry Christmas everyone!  This shoreline bride is SO excited - my holiday starts today at 4pm! Ant and I will be heading to Rhode Island to celebrate my youngest sister's birthday tonight.  Since we're making the trek out there there - we're going to stay!  We will spend Christmas Eve and Christmas morning with my family, before heading to Prospect to celebrate with Ant's parents - Christmas Day is his mom's birthday too!  So many reasons to celebrate!!!

This is the Christmas card we sent out to a few friends and family this year....again - I'm looking for any excuse to maximize use of our engagement pictures! I found this cute temple in this shop on Etsy...and thought it was perfect!  We asked her to make the colors a little more festive.  It was downloadable, and we printed them out at the CVS down the street.  SO super easy and simple, which is perfect for this girl.  Holiday season in retail is way too busy to make things complicated.

I hope you all enjoy a wonderful holiday with your loved ones!!

Friday, December 20, 2013

All I want for Christmas....

I'd love to talk about some of my favorite Christmas gifts to give others - but since Christmas hasn't happened yet - that topic will have to wait!  In the meantime, I thought I'd cover self gifting.

As new homeowners, Ant and I have found ourselves with an entirely new set of expenses and responsibilities....which we would never trade for the world!  We LOVE our home and the projects we continue to do to make it our own.  These new expenses and responsibilities, however, make the holidays that much more fun!  We love an excuse to spoil each other and ourselves......which is why 2013 is the Christmas of WANTS!  Absolutely beautiful and unnecessary things that we ask for just because we want them :) (Yes Ant, I just called XBox One unnecessary...sorry!)

When I was asked what I wanted for Christmas this year, I wasn't entirely sure.  But....as I've gone along over the last few weeks, I have managed to come up with a few things!  If I was going to be splurging on me, these are a few of the things I want that would be at the top of my list this year! As a firm believer in self gifting, maybe a few of them will make their way into our house over the next few months....

One thing I've always struggled with is all the great things I find that I LOVE while shopping for others!! This beautiful wave necklace is from Aquinnah Jewelry designed in Killingworth, CT.  I was shopping at a boutique that had a trunk show by this designer and fell in love.  I absolutely need this necklace for myself...but I held off (for now)! Like so many other pieces by this designer it is so simple and so pretty - I DID buy a bracelet for a friend!!  A girl can only say no to but so many things...



Ahhhh.  These booties by Jessica Simpson.  I can't decide if I'd buy brown or black, which is probably the main reason I haven't bought them yet.  I am not the best in heels. So wedge heels like these are the perfect solution - especially in the winter!  It's so cold which makes looking cute sometimes feel very challenging.....but these with any jeans and a simple top and ta da!  Crisis averted. (They're on sale now too!)



Okay, so my dad and I discovered this pillow while shopping at Pier 1 the other day.  It might look slightly...frilly.  But it is seriously the most surprisingly soft pillow!  and the frilly makes for a very soft, pretty detail for your favorite space.....mine currently being our brand spanking new living room.  Now if I can find the perfect new blanket to go with it, Ant's in real trouble.



Our engagement pictures were amazing...and we have big plans to display a few of them - our two favorite black and white ones - in our bedroom (my second gallery wall project!).  We already bought a frame for one of them, but the other would look even more stunning displayed as a Gallery Wrap - which you can order through our photographer herself!



Back to the basics - my go to mascara would be the perfect stocking stuffer...if I was stuffing my own stocking! I love most things BareMinerals...and this mascara is at the top of that list.  I have very long eyelashes, and it's easy for mascara to get too clumpy or too crazy.  This one is simple and does just what I need it to, curl & lengthen.  Enough said!



Sigh.  I buy myself two purses a year, and I am way overdue for my winter one :)  This crossbody from Kate Spade would do the trick!  Not too big, not too small....and I haven't had a simple black bag in about 4 years...I think it's time!!  My current purse is a beautiful mustard colored one I got in Florence though, so it's a little harder to part with than usual.


Is 2013 a Christmas of wants or needs for you??  What is at the top of your list??

Monday, December 16, 2013

Our EMoon - the beauty of AirBNB

In my last post about our EMoon - I covered our itinerary for the trip, and how we decided where we were going to spend our time in Europe!...now the next minor detail, where would we be sleeping??

(sorry in advance, this is a lengthy one...get comfortable!)

Switzerland was easy - staying with family solved that problem, and was definitely a wonderful way to start off the trip!  As far as Italy was concerned - the last time I traveled to Italy we stayed in a mix of hostels and cheaper hotels - I definitely did NOT want to be staying in any huge hostels with shared rooms on a romantic trip to Italy with my cute boyfriend ;) but I had heard of this website AirBNB where people rented out rooms in their apartments/full apartments to you! I spent a LONGGG time reading reviews, and looking at options with Ant, and we ultimately decided this was the way to go!  There were some really great unique spaces and at good prices, what better way to see the cities?  In some cities it was a great way to get into better parts of the city where hotels cost $$$, which we were NOT trying to spend.  We also figured as a younger couple NOT super worried about room service and fancy hotels, what better time to go this route!

As far as the exact apartments we ended up staying in.....when I tell you I did a LOT of research, that would be the worlds biggest understatement.  I read review after review - comparing amenities & location & cost in each.  The variety is insane!  We ended up deciding to only stay in options that involved renting entire apartments - no sharing spaces.  Other than that - the places all ended up varying a lot.  Location was probably the first biggest factor - we knew we were going to be tight for time in each city, and did not want to be wasting time getting from our apartment to the main parts of the city!

Here are the places we ended up deciding on:

Venice:

The listing isn't there anymore - but we stayed in the cosy central penthouse with a rooftop terrace - we learned quickly that we LOVE terraces!  This shows you a little bit about the listing - reasonable room rate, entire home/apt...40 reviews (# of reviews was just as important as quality) - I wanted to know with 100% certainty that we were going to be in good hands.

This is what we actually walked into! I took the pictures after waking up the first morning - so please excuse the mess of luggage everywhere...this apartment had a bedroom:


Living/kitchen room area:


And stairs leading up to the terrace!!!


This was our view looking out from the rooftop terrace...



Since we had such a beautiful place to relax, we took full advantage and ate our lunches there - which saved major $$.  3 Euro bottles of wine and pizza roll ups or fresh sandwiches from local shops made for very reasonable meals - and it was so nice to refresh half way through the day back at home!  Don't I look like a happy camper ;)





Saying goodbye to our rooftop terrace before heading to Florence...


Looking back on our apartment in Venice:
Location was amazing! We were not far from the main square, and literally walked everywhere - including to the train station with our luggage (we probably should have just paid for a water taxi - it was HOT and bridges make for lots of stairs). Otherwise though, perfect. Only a 5 minute walk from the shuttle stop where the girl met us.  In Venice, we found that hotels (even hostels!) were VERY expensive if you wanted a decent location..so for us, this was a huge win - a way to get the location we wanted without spending a fortune.

This listing of all three by far had the worst communication with the girl who listed it, who we met up with to get keys, etc. While we were in Switzerland there was one pt where I called AirBnB because she wasn't getting back to me, and we were going to be landing at night in Venice not knowing if we had somewhere to stay. Not ideal! As it turned out, she was a theatre student and it was just a busy weekend for her...and we met with no trouble...but it was just a little more stress than I needed during our vacation.  We loved everything else about the apartment, so once we were in we were fine, but definitely minus points for communication on her end.


Florence:

Florence was by FAR the most unique and fun of the places we stayed! The woman who rents it out is an artist, and the place is covered head to toe with all sorts of fun prints and art she's made. 

The listing is posted here ...but here's a quick snapshot of it!


We paid $104 a night, plus fees.  Again, an insane deal!  The woman, Silvia, was AMAZING with communication - always answered very quickly.  Her listing says theres a deposit thats required - but when I emailed her about staying there I asked if we could waive it.  We were only staying two nights mid week and the deposit was almost as much as our reservation.  She immediately agreed no questions asked!  The apartment was no more than a 10 minute walk from the train station - so again no fees for transportation.  The biggest downside to this apartment was that you had to walk up about a million flights of stairs with your luggage to get to the top floor....but it was TOTALLY worth it because you found yourself in the coolest apartment with.....yup! A rooftop terrace looking out over Florence.  As you can see below in my picture, the apartment is much more updated and bright than the pictures online even suggest.  Adorable, right? 



The spiral staircase led to a loft with a queen size bed....



The bathroom had the brightest yellow tile, and a nice little window in the shower!  Ant loved showering with the "fresh Florence air" pouring in.


Ummm...hello!  This was view of the duomo from the roof.  The first night we were there we celebrated with prosecco, and a selfie...



Again, probably our favorite part of the apartments and terraces was the ability to get an early start to the day, and break it up with lunch at home.  This was our picnic in Florence! ...notice wine, coffee, and water!  The woman we rented from suggested a place just down the street, where we got sandwiches and pizza.  Yummmm.


Again - Silvia could not have been easier to communicate with.  She called us the day before to double check our arrival time, text me the day of to let me know she was going to be there waiting for us...and when we rang the bell and started up the stairs - she popped her head out to greet us!  Since we weren't leaving until early afternoon the day we left, she let us leave our luggage packed and ready to go in the entrance, so the cleaning lady could come in, but we didn't have to worry about storage!  That made our last day in Florence SO much more relaxing, we could cram in as much fun as possible before we left, and not worry about dragging around our suitcases!

Florence is my favorite kind of city, the small kind!  It made booking a place to stay much easier.  I knew nothing was going to be too far, so we focused on price and view, and worried less about exactly where we were staying.  We stayed about as far north in the city as possible (the marked A), while still being remotely "central"...and were still able to walk to Piazza Michelangelo, the furthest possible point on this map, in the bottom right corner by the Giardino delle Rose, in under 20 minutes! We did it twice in our two day stay, thats how incredible the view is!  All the main sights are between us and Piazza Michelangelo, so we were easily able to walk to all of our destinations.



Rome:

Our final destination was the biggest city, and the one we knew the least about...Rome!  We probably had the hardest time deciding on where to stay here as well.  I spent a long time discussing it with my roomie from college - who has been to Rome a number of times.  I used her suggestions and experience from where she had stayed and where the major sights were to get a general idea of where we wanted to be.  The problem with Rome, is that it is so much bigger! Katie assured me we could still walk everywhere, since that is what she and her parents did when they were there.  That helped me put things into perspective when looking at this giant map of an unknown city.  There are SO many things to see and do in Rome that is was also a bit overwhelming! We wanted to be able to fit as much as possible in.  We ended up choosing this place below...in the middle of Trastevere.  It was a little more reasonable in price than being right in the heart of the city, near Piazza Navona, etc...and Martin had the BEST reviews.  I loved his honest and candid description.  He describes it as tiny, not small because Americans have complained - and he doesn't want any unpleasant surprises - so I expected tiny and was pleasantly surprised!  We paid $144 a night, with a $100 security deposit that we got back the day we left.


I was a little worried, because as you can tell on this map, it isn't very close to any of the main attractions:  the Vatican is way to the left, the Colosseum is pretty far to the right, and Piazza Navona, the Spanish Steps, and the Trevi Fountain are all across the river in the middle of everything.  As it turned out, I think this was the perfect way of doing things! By being not right next to one particular thing, it made us a manageable walk to everything! We were able to divide our visits up, and stop at home in the middle of the day without any trouble!  Trastevere was such a unique place to stay too, being the older part of the city...it had so many unique shops and restaurants to explore.


This was us arriving at our apartment - so excited! and THRILLED because we spoiled ourselves with a taxi right to the door from the train station.  The BEST PART of this apartment, by far, was the fact that Martin and his sister grew up in Rome, so they had so much experience and so much advice for us.  I emailed Elizabeth to ask about the easiest route from the station to the apartment with public transportation and she immediately suggested a cab.  This is the email I got back below - which made us feel totally comfortable with what to expect.  and bonus - the cab was less than 10 Euro!!  Worth every stinking penny to not have to lug our suitcases onto a public bus.  



Look at that precious window - everything is prettier in Italy, I swear.  The woman who lives upstairs met us in the apartment to give us a tour and our key - and told us to call if we needed anything!  Then we were on our own to explore.


Now the grand tour: as I said, this was definitely the smallest and most basic of our apartments....but we aren't trying to live in luxury people, we're trying to explore the city!! You walked into the kitchen first (sorry, I don't know what Ant is doing in this picture...) We were greeted with a bottle of wine welcoming us to Rome!  


There was a small hallway with a bathroom, which then led to the living room/bedroom.  We kept the bed out the whole time, but you could turn it into a sofa if you wanted to.  The door behind the bed led to a small terrace as well.


They included all the necessary things in the small apartment, like an iron! At this point in the trip most of our stuff was a mess.  As you can tell, we also made quite the mess of the place - with luggage everywhere.


Again, everything that the apartment lacked as far as aesthetics, was more than made up for in the knowledge we received from Martin and Elizabeth.  Ant and I were all about making the most of our time there - which included not wasting our time with bad tourist Italian food.  When I emailed them for suggestions - this is the response I got back in no time.  Are you kidding me!! It doesn't get any better.  Detailed descriptions of a variety of places to eat, from pizza joints to real roman trattorias...to the best gelato around! We used their recommendations for more than one meal - and benefited so so much from their advice.  Trattoria Da Enzo, one of the ones listed below, was by far our best meal in Italy.  and their advice about reservations saved us from major disappointment - we had to book two nights in advance!! It was so special to have such real local advice while we were in the city - we had the best virtual tour guides!  This was some of the stuff I had read about in the positive reviews, and we were not disappointed.


The last thing they offered, which we took advantage of was a car service to get you to the airport.  They had a set fee that you paid, and they called and set the car service up for you with a pick up time at the apartment based on your flight.  We knew we were going to be tired at the end of the trip, and decided to use this service so we didn't have to worry about calling a taxi, or figuring out public transportation....and what a good call that was! Like clockwork the guy showed up at the door, helped us with our suitcases, and drove us right to our gate - he already had all our information so there were no issues about where we were going!  He was so professional - piece of cake!  These kinds of above and beyond options you don't always see with AirBnb - but they made such a difference!!!  They offered all kinds of other services as well - from filling your fridge with food before you got there, to Italian cooking classes and guided tours - but we are more the DIY sort of tourists...so we didn't take advantage of those options....but if you like some extra pampering I would trust these guys 100%!

So those were the places we called home while in Italy!  What do you think?  Would you ever consider using a site like AirBnb?  Are you more of a budget or comfort kind of traveler?  ....and how on earth do you decide where to stay when going to an unfamiliar place??  Ant and I only had good things to say about our experience with AirBnb....but there is something to be said about a nice plush bed & room service sometimes!!  

I love talking travel....and all this talk makes me want to go back!  Where in Europe would you go if you could book a trip tonight?

Tuesday, December 10, 2013

Thankful for pretty things and pretty days

Happy snow day everyone!

Well, maybe not snow day....but certainly snowy day! There are no snow days in retail, but while I'm snuggled up before work, I thought I'd share some pretty things I'm thankful for this year... Thank you notes!  

Between Thanksgiving and Christmas, there is plenty to be thankful for...and when you add in an engagement/housewarming party, Ant and I found ourselves in desperate need of good thank you notes - and lots of them! I found that there are so so many great options out there, depending on what you're looking for! I thought I'd share a few of my favorites here - in a season of gift guides, I give you a thank you card guide!!



www.mara-mi.com --snowflake cookie thank you card! Simple and festive for the holidays.


www.postable.com --for those of you who are tech savvy - the simplest of ways to write thank you notes, with plenty of cute designs! I've never tried it....if you have, did you love it??


 www.lilyandval.com --also on Etsy, I love these simple chalkboard designs.


www.KimberlyFitzSimons.com --also on Etsy...this card = fabulous!! And there's nothing better than cute envelopes to go with cute cards! 



www.etsy.com/shop/browndogpaper --for the coffee lovers out there!


www.pepperpress.com --I just bought a card from them for our gallery wall (more to come on that!) but I think this card is the sweetest way to say thanks to someone you love.


www.etsy.com/shop/CraftandCandor --gold and glittery and perfect for the holiday season. 


mophotography.etsy.com --I LOVE the gold and pink combo - and the fun wording makes for a different spin on your traditional thank you card!

Do you love sending thank you notes? I'm going to be honest, Ant and I are not great at them...but we are making a strong effort to be better - we have so many wonderful people in our lives, and we want them to know how much we appreciate them! And let's be honest, there's nothing better than getting mail - especially when it's pretty like these are!!

And to prove we mean it - here's our first batch about to go out!!!



Thursday, December 5, 2013

#becomingmrsmascia November wrap up!

Happy December! (5 days late...HOW is it already December 5th???)

Anyway, I thought I'd do a quick wrap up of November's #becomingmrsmascia - it's sort of fun to see the month in review through pictures!

If you don't already follow me on instagram (http://instagram.com/theshorelinebride) ...what are you waiting for??

11/20 - Freezing picnic at Lighthouse Point Park to celebrate 5 years of hanging out with this guy!  We had the most productive day around the house together and ended the night at our favorite local wine bar, Ballous.


11/21 - We finally hung the picture...and suddenly I HATED the color of the wall.  So we decided it was time to paint! A trip to Home Depot and an hour of comparing blues and greens gave us these three finalists.  The test run...

11/22 - XBox One came out, and the world stopped.  I came home to a TV that way prefers Ant's voice to my own.  How rude!

11/23 - First haircut in as long as I can remember - project long healthy hair for the wedding begins!

11/24 - Roomie was in town!!  We spent the afternoon at the outlets, enjoying the sparkly things that Christmas brings, especially in Kate Spade...

11/25 - Ant and I picked the final color - and got one coat on!  The snowman mug made his first appearance of the season - and hit on anyone who would pay attention.

11/26 - The finished product!!!  Couldn't be happier with our pop of color.  Now we need new couches to match the fancy new wall :)

11/27 - Save the Dates went out!!!! YAY!  Talk about a sigh of relief.  More posts to come on that process...and the final product!

11/28 - Happy Thanksgiving! As usual, the holiday meant lots of travel for us...but there's nothing more important than family, especially this time of year... so you make it work!  We started the day off in Rhody with my family, and ended it in CT with Ants.

11/29 - I work retail....so 11/29=Black Friday.  Starbucks Caramel Brûlée Latte required.

11/30 - Ant and I worked opposite schedules Black Friday weekend...so I enjoyed my morning off with a retail hangover in bed doing arts & crafts.  Getting ready to bust out the Christmas/Winter decor!

Overall, I'd say it was a pretty productive couple of weeks! Mailing our save the dates was HUGE - we wanted them out before the true holiday craziness hit.  Getting our living room wall painted was a wonderful bonus!

How was your November??  Did you end it with a retail hangover or a turkey one?