Tuesday, January 28, 2014

Vacation Mode

Alright, I have to admit...I am officially in vacation mode.

The good news is, I leave for vacation in less than 24 hours!!!

Ant, his mom and I will be leaving for Ft Lauderdale tomorrow AM, where we will meet up with his dad, aunt and uncle.  This is the third time Ant and I have gone down, and the second time his parents have joined us! This year we will also be driving down to the Keys, which I am SO excited about!

This is the view from the condo we stay at...sigh.



And this will be us! White and glowing but oh so happy in the sun.


When I get back I will recap for you how I did with my January list, and get started on my February list....August is coming fast!  Plus - I will have a recap of the Bachelor Wedding.  Sorry in advance if you are not a Bachelor fan, but this girl is! and I LOVE a good wedding......and as a bride-to-be especially, I have taken an interest in any and all weddings around me.  I took good notes of this one - so we'll chat about that a bit!

Do you have any mid-winter trips coming up?  If not, I'll send warm thoughts your way!!

Saturday, January 25, 2014

The Veil Epiphany*

The Veil.

For someone who has spent so much time looking at wedding related things - the veil is a tricky one that totally caught me by surprise.  When I was pretty sure I had found my wedding dress, she added a veil - and in a fashion eerily similar to one of those classy "Say Yes to the Dress" shows, it made me cry.  Not that I wasn't super emotional already, from an amazing day of trying to absolutely stunning WEDDING dresses meaning that I was a bride-to-be (!!!), but something about the veil put me over the edge.  I was not ready to make any decisions other than my dress at the time, so we put the whole veil thing on hold.

Until this week!

Wednesday my mother, MOH and I went back to The White Dress by the shore for an accessory appointment.  I won't get into all the sparkly details of the day, but I will tell you that I found my perfect veil!  But let me tell you, I had NO idea what that meant going into it.  Or even once she put 3 or 4 on my head.  You see, there are lots of types of veils.  Long, short, longer, lacey, edged with ribbon, no edge, with a blusher & without........etc.  While I KNEW I wanted a veil, I wasn't sure what type of veil was "me".  I had NEVER thought about what kind of veil I would wear, or what kind of veil had caught my attention in pictures, or anything.  I had just simply not ever thought about the veil at all.  It took a lot of thinking out loud with the stylist, Melissa & my mom to start to make sense of it all.  We talked about the dress, the feel of the wedding we were going for, the venue...and any other detail that might impact such a decision.

I think my own opinion on this one surprised me.  BUT, the beauty of it all is that you won't know until August why :)  I promise I will walk you through my whole thought process then, since I know you will be on the edge of your seat...

In the meantime - here is some veil inspiration.  When I came home from the appointment I was legitimately so confused by the whole experience I went online and looked at a million weddings, paying attention ONLY to the veils for a change.  Like anything else, the beauty of weddings is everyone is different, and different things look perfect in different situations.  I am confident and excited that mine will be perfect for me!  But here are a few of my favorites, for any other reason from my new found appreciation for veils....


















What type of veil did you wear at your wedding?  OR, if you haven't gotten married yet, which of these styles jumps out at you?  My MOH says she's always imaged being more of a sparkle in your hair kinda girl...and I can't say I blame her for that either!!


*Yes, epiphany might be a strong word for this particular topic...but in the scheme of wedding talk, that's what you get!

Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Flower girl dresses - the hunt!

Ahhhh, flower girls.  The cutest part of the bridal party.  Generally speaking, our wedding will be adults only....with the exception of our flower girls.  We will not have a ring bearer - there are far too many cute little boys on Ant's side of the family to be able to choose one!  We will have two flower girls though...very LITTLE, adorable flower girls.  One will be 18 months old, and one will be almost 3.  They are both daughters of my cousins - my dad's oldest sister's grandchildren.  You follow?  Good!

In any case, one of the things NOT on my January list, but something that I made special time for was to start thinking about flower girl dresses.  Since our wedding is in August it is going to be hot, and my flower girls are very young...I want to make sure they are comfortable!  There is no reason for full length gowns or anything with lots of crazy layers.  I am pretty confident I want them in either white, navy, or some combination - that will match the groomsmen's suits nicely, and will be easier than trying to match the blush of the bridesmaids.

I want the flower girl's mothers to ultimately decide on their dresses, that way I know they are comfortable with the choice and cost, etc.  There is no reason to spend a ton of money on a dress that they are only going to wear once!  and probably grow out of in a matter of weeks anyway.  I recently started collecting ideas, and just sent a few of them out to get the ball rolling, and see what we could come up with!  I tried for a range of fanciness - our August wedding on the water will certainly be classy, but casual enough that the right summer dress could just perfectly do the trick as well.

Here is the mix I came up with:

These two white dresses from Monsoon are absolutely adorable!  They are more along the lines of what I would consider a traditional flower girl dress, but a little more simple and sweet than a lot of the puffiness and satin I'm used to seeing.  I love the lace cap sleeves of the top one, and the adorable big bow on the second one.






This ETSY shop I found, OsEstorninhos has a couple of great options as well - the first one being a much more simple, summery version of the pure white and lace concept - with fun ruffles and flowers to dress it up a bit! The second one incorporates navy which I love, and think would look sharp next to the boys suits.  Again, a simple sash adds the perfect final touch.





This next ETSY shop, The Rogue Baby has the cutest ruffle dresses!  This all navy blue option is much more casual, but the matching white sash and headband would tie it in nicely with the rest of the wedding party.



This last one is the most casual - from the Gap...but the navy and white stripes are perfect for our seaside wedding!  My vision of this one includes adding our own sash or headband, similar to the one above it, to dress it up just a smidge!



The beauty of it all, is that the girls will look adorable in absolutely anything...which makes it the easiest decision in a lot of ways.  I fully intend on them stealing the show in that way, and I am SO okay with that!

So what do you think??  Which one would you pick?  Is there somewhere else I should be looking for potential flower girl dresses?  If you see the perfect one - send it my way!